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We’ve all heard the expression that confession is good for the soul. I have many callers that confess things they’ve done or secretly want to do. I came across a website where you can anonymously post your confessions and wanted to share some with you.

  • I secretly video taped my partner and I having sex in the shower and share it on the net.
  • I peed all over my girlfriends underpants, hung them on the line until they were dry and then folded them and put them away.
  • I’d love for my wife to have sex with other men then tell me all the dirty details while feeding me her cream pie. Unfortunately I can’t even discuss this with my wife as she’s too straight. Can anyone help make this fantasy come true?
  • My girlfriend has always been the dominant one. I loved it when she started using a strapon on me. Now she also brings home men to fuck me. I am the world’s luckiest man!!
  • I have had sex with 4 different men in the last 18 months. I had sex with one guy then went home to my partner and had sex with him. I get hot thinking about it!
  • I’m addicted to sex…
    I love having sex with strangers, public places and black men drive me wild

If you have something to confess, feel free to leave your comment to this entry.

Phone Sex VS. Real Sex

When it comes to sex, most would say that there’s nothing like the real thing and for the most part, I agree BUT…..sometimes phone sex can be more satisfying.

There isn’t just one reason why some like phone sex better, it depends on what they need sexually. I don’t have to tell anyone what makes sex good but alot of times there’s something missing. I’ve done calls with guys whose wife was in the next room or in the same room while the wife was asleep;) Why would they call me instead of making love to the woman that’s right there? Sometimes a man wants more.

Let’s face it, most guys call phone sex because they are horny and no one is there to have sex with and masturbating while talking to a girl with a hot voice is better than masturbating alone. These are NOT the phone sex callers I’m speaking of. The callers I’m talking about enjoy phone sex more than real sex for other reasons like: 

  • They are in control and can make the experience be what ‘they’ want.
  • The freedom of talking about what really turns them on, no matter how kinky it may be.
  • Their partner isn’t into some of the things they like and may leave them if they knew;)
  • The girl on the phone is always ready, willing, and almost never says no.
  • It’s all about him and his fantasy
  • It’s less work 

I’ve had guys tell me that their orgasms are more intense having phone sex than with their partner. There are women who feel the same way. I recently read an article where a woman was seeking advice to help her enjoy real sex as much as phone sex. (click here to read it

Why Do You Love Phone Sex?

I recently visited a forum where someone asked ‘Why men love phone sex?’ Of course there were several opinions on the subject like – “cause we like jerkin off”, “because they can’t get the real thing!”, “It’s a turn on”, “they are lonely”, and “Some men do but not all”.  Some even think phone sex is a sexual addiction. There were also some answers that were obviously given by guys who indulge in phone sex and were able to give some insightful answers.

Response #1

“Most of it is all psychological  it has to do with the idea that a girl is being dirty, taboo, its different (and less work…) most of all, it has a bit more imagination involved. not everything is so realistic so while a guy is fantasizing, he can be thinking of any number of hot scenarios. Its stimulation… the basic concept of pornography…. (fyi, there are many gals who enjoy it too)”

Response #2

“Biologically men are wired to be very easily stimulated by sights and sounds, sights more so but sounds can be just as arousing.
When a guy is on a phone with a girl he can fantasize about her (or who ever) he can act out his fantasies to an extent by tell the girl to say what he wants. And, yes its true, guys tend to masturbate at the same time.
What it boils down to is that phone sex is a cheap and easy way for some guys to get hot and get off.
And just for clarification: The only time I’ve ever had phone sex was with a girlfriend, and she enjoyed it too! Not all guys care for phone sex though.”


As a phone sex operator, I have some opinions of my own as to why men love phone sex and it boils down to the fact that ‘fantasy can sometimes be better than reality”.  It can be difficult to reveal your fantasies with your partner if you don’t think they will be open to it and willing to explore them with you especially if they are taboo. Calling a stranger that will not judge you and indulge these fantasies can be a very enjoyable experience.

If you love phone sex and have something insightful to say on the subject, I’d love to hear your comments.



The Girlfriend Experience (GFE)


The girlfriend experience is something that is commonly known in the escort industry but many are enjoying it with phone sex operators as well. Sometimes a caller wants to do more than just get off and hang up. They want a more intimate experience where they can talk about things other than sex. Not to be confused with a casual chat session, the GFE call will eventually lead to sex but it’s not rushed and the parties involved take the time to connect on a deeper level.

It’s easy to see why a man would enjoy a GFE with an escort but some may wonder how this can be satisfying over the phone with no physical interaction?  The fact is, a GFE  with a PSO can be very fulfilling and Hot! These relationships can also last a long time, sometimes for years.

Speaking from my own experiences, the callers that enjoy the GFE are usually those who:

  • Want to be in a relationship but may not have the time due to a busy lifestyle or career.
  • Is shy and may not be very comfortable around women.
  • Is married or in a relationship with someone that he may not be comfortable talking to about his secret sexual fantasies.
  • Wants to have a relationship his way and likes be in control of  how and when things happen.

What they like:

  • Obviously, there is phone sex but it’s very slow and detailed. It can be anything from vanilla, to kinky, to rough.
  • Watching porn together.
  • Talking about or planning a hookup with someone they want to date or sleep with.
  • Talking about their personal life ( work, family, friends)
  • Webcam sessions.
  • Email and IM communication on a regular basis.
  • Sharing their fantasies and playing them out.
  • Confessing secrets.

Of course the girlfriend experience is not for everyone but sometimes it just happens. It’s very possible to connect with someone in a very personal and intimate way over the phone. So if you like the idea of  having a  girlfriend without the commitment and no strings attached, you may want to give the GFE a try😉


One of the best things about phone sex is role playing

I love it when a guy tells me his fantasy and we play it out. I’ve played everything from a naughty school girl to a Mistress. There are alot of girls out there with just one specialty but it’s so much more fun to do it all.

I’m always being asked questions like ‘what’s your favorite role to play?’, ‘what’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done on a call?’, or ‘what really turns you on?’. I find these questions impossible to answer because I can never narrow it down to just one thing. Besides, I think they ask those questions because they are trying to figure out if I’ll be open to whatever it is they want to get into anyway. Alot of phone sex girls say ‘anything goes’ and don’t really mean it, I assure you that I mean it!

The whole purpose of phone sex is about Fantasy. Going places in your sexuality that you either want to go for real at some point, may never do but the fantasy turns you on and you need to play it out, or you just want to explore something new. Because the possibilities of sex are limitless, phone sex should be the same way.

It doesn’t matter if you’re in the mood to just be yourself or someone else, I’m open to it.So I ask you…..What role can I play for you? What role would you like to play for me?

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