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Why Do You Love Phone Sex?

I recently visited a forum where someone asked ‘Why men love phone sex?’ Of course there were several opinions on the subject like – “cause we like jerkin off”, “because they can’t get the real thing!”, “It’s a turn on”, “they are lonely”, and “Some men do but not all”.  Some even think phone sex is a sexual addiction. There were also some answers that were obviously given by guys who indulge in phone sex and were able to give some insightful answers.

Response #1

“Most of it is all psychological  it has to do with the idea that a girl is being dirty, taboo, its different (and less work…) most of all, it has a bit more imagination involved. not everything is so realistic so while a guy is fantasizing, he can be thinking of any number of hot scenarios. Its stimulation… the basic concept of pornography…. (fyi, there are many gals who enjoy it too)”

Response #2

“Biologically men are wired to be very easily stimulated by sights and sounds, sights more so but sounds can be just as arousing.
When a guy is on a phone with a girl he can fantasize about her (or who ever) he can act out his fantasies to an extent by tell the girl to say what he wants. And, yes its true, guys tend to masturbate at the same time.
What it boils down to is that phone sex is a cheap and easy way for some guys to get hot and get off.
And just for clarification: The only time I’ve ever had phone sex was with a girlfriend, and she enjoyed it too! Not all guys care for phone sex though.”

 

As a phone sex operator, I have some opinions of my own as to why men love phone sex and it boils down to the fact that ‘fantasy can sometimes be better than reality”.  It can be difficult to reveal your fantasies with your partner if you don’t think they will be open to it and willing to explore them with you especially if they are taboo. Calling a stranger that will not judge you and indulge these fantasies can be a very enjoyable experience.

If you love phone sex and have something insightful to say on the subject, I’d love to hear your comments.

xo

Layla

WHAT ROLE CAN I PLAY FOR YOU?

One of the best things about phone sex is role playing

I love it when a guy tells me his fantasy and we play it out. I’ve played everything from a naughty school girl to a Mistress. There are alot of girls out there with just one specialty but it’s so much more fun to do it all.

I’m always being asked questions like ‘what’s your favorite role to play?’, ‘what’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done on a call?’, or ‘what really turns you on?’. I find these questions impossible to answer because I can never narrow it down to just one thing. Besides, I think they ask those questions because they are trying to figure out if I’ll be open to whatever it is they want to get into anyway. Alot of phone sex girls say ‘anything goes’ and don’t really mean it, I assure you that I mean it!

The whole purpose of phone sex is about Fantasy. Going places in your sexuality that you either want to go for real at some point, may never do but the fantasy turns you on and you need to play it out, or you just want to explore something new. Because the possibilities of sex are limitless, phone sex should be the same way.

It doesn’t matter if you’re in the mood to just be yourself or someone else, I’m open to it.So I ask you…..What role can I play for you? What role would you like to play for me?

Your Fantasy or Your Truth

 

I can’t tell you how many times I had someone on the line wanting to play out a fantasy that I could tell was not just a fantasy at all. They have their reasons I’m sure for not telling me it’s something they either really want to do or have already tried. It could be that seeing it as a fantasy makes it more exciting or they may be embarrassed to admit the truth. It’s totally understandable that a person that’s into something taboo would say it’s a fantasy and in most cases a fantasy is just a fantasy. But what happens when you fantasize about something so much that it seeps into your reality? Is it possible to be so turned by something and never want to try it for real?   Hmmmmmm;)

I read an article that said the top 10 male fantasies were:

  • Threesomes

  • Sex with a Prostitute

  • Role playing

  • Women who are off-limits

  • Exotic locations

  • Caught in the act

  • Sex with a stranger

  • Voyeuristic pleasure

  • Being with dominatrix

  • Sex with a Virgin

This is of course a very ‘vanilla’ way of describing them but you get the idea. I’ve found role playing to be the most common among my callers and within that all the other fantasies listed above are played out.  Of course there is no way I can know for sure if I’m playing out or listening to someones fantasy or a confession of their truth.

I do believe that a person can have a fantasy they would never carry out in real life. I have a few of my own, but to make my point, I want to give you something to think about. You know that very naughty fantasy you have that no one knows about? 🙂 If you could actually do it and no one would ever find out, would you go through with it? If you didn’t already say no, then you would, which means your fantasy may very well be your truth. I say…….as long as it legal, go for it!

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