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Why Do You Love Phone Sex?

I recently visited a forum where someone asked ‘Why men love phone sex?’ Of course there were several opinions on the subject like – “cause we like jerkin off”, “because they can’t get the real thing!”, “It’s a turn on”, “they are lonely”, and “Some men do but not all”.  Some even think phone sex is a sexual addiction. There were also some answers that were obviously given by guys who indulge in phone sex and were able to give some insightful answers.

Response #1

“Most of it is all psychological  it has to do with the idea that a girl is being dirty, taboo, its different (and less work…) most of all, it has a bit more imagination involved. not everything is so realistic so while a guy is fantasizing, he can be thinking of any number of hot scenarios. Its stimulation… the basic concept of pornography…. (fyi, there are many gals who enjoy it too)”

Response #2

“Biologically men are wired to be very easily stimulated by sights and sounds, sights more so but sounds can be just as arousing.
When a guy is on a phone with a girl he can fantasize about her (or who ever) he can act out his fantasies to an extent by tell the girl to say what he wants. And, yes its true, guys tend to masturbate at the same time.
What it boils down to is that phone sex is a cheap and easy way for some guys to get hot and get off.
And just for clarification: The only time I’ve ever had phone sex was with a girlfriend, and she enjoyed it too! Not all guys care for phone sex though.”


As a phone sex operator, I have some opinions of my own as to why men love phone sex and it boils down to the fact that ‘fantasy can sometimes be better than reality”.  It can be difficult to reveal your fantasies with your partner if you don’t think they will be open to it and willing to explore them with you especially if they are taboo. Calling a stranger that will not judge you and indulge these fantasies can be a very enjoyable experience.

If you love phone sex and have something insightful to say on the subject, I’d love to hear your comments.



Virtual Threesome

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Most men fantasize about having a threesome with 2 women but few will actually get the opportunity. Those who have experienced a threesome more than likely did it with someone they had a casual sex relationship with that wasn’t their wife or girlfriend. If a man is in a relationship or married, he knows that his dream of bringing another girl into their bedroom is a fantasy that he may never fulfill. Some of the reasons most women say no to a threesome is because they fell like it’s cheating or they don’t want to be intimate with another woman or they feel insecure. So, instead of asking your wife or girlfriend for something she more than likely will never say yes to, consider a virtual threesome.

If you can convince your partner to engage in a threesome with a phone sex operator, it can be a very satisfying experience. I had a caller tell me he wanted to do a threesome with his girlfriend and I thought he meant as a role play but he actually had her there on the line with him. When she said hello, I could tell that she was a bit shy but willing to indulge to please her man. He took control of the call and told us both what to do so it would be the kind of threesome he would want in real life. His girlfriend got more into it as we went along which really turned him on. It was a very hot session that ended with him showing her how much he appreciated her fulfilling his fantasy as I listened in. They came together and I could feel the intensity of it through the phone. He called me a few days later to tell me how much they enjoyed it and how surprised he was at how much his girlfriend opened up and really got into it. He seems to think it may have opened her mind to trying it for real someday but if that never happens, he’s very happy that she’s willing to do it on the phone.

Your dream of a threesome can be realized too if you just try doing it another way.  Getting your partner to agree to it may be the hardest part but if she agrees, virtual may be the way go so you may want to give it a try.

Oh, BTW……….You may also want to consider that she too may have a threesome fantasy with 2 guys, so why not return the favor. There are plenty of male phone sex operators out there;)

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