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Phone Sex VS. Real Sex

When it comes to sex, most would say that there’s nothing like the real thing and for the most part, I agree BUT…..sometimes phone sex can be more satisfying.

There isn’t just one reason why some like phone sex better, it depends on what they need sexually. I don’t have to tell anyone what makes sex good but alot of times there’s something missing. I’ve done calls with guys whose wife was in the next room or in the same room while the wife was asleep;) Why would they call me instead of making love to the woman that’s right there? Sometimes a man wants more.

Let’s face it, most guys call phone sex because they are horny and no one is there to have sex with and masturbating while talking to a girl with a hot voice is better than masturbating alone. These are NOT the phone sex callers I’m speaking of. The callers I’m talking about enjoy phone sex more than real sex for other reasons like: 

  • They are in control and can make the experience be what ‘they’ want.
  • The freedom of talking about what really turns them on, no matter how kinky it may be.
  • Their partner isn’t into some of the things they like and may leave them if they knew;)
  • The girl on the phone is always ready, willing, and almost never says no.
  • It’s all about him and his fantasy
  • It’s less work 

I’ve had guys tell me that their orgasms are more intense having phone sex than with their partner. There are women who feel the same way. I recently read an article where a woman was seeking advice to help her enjoy real sex as much as phone sex. (click here to read it

Why Do You Love Phone Sex?

I recently visited a forum where someone asked ‘Why men love phone sex?’ Of course there were several opinions on the subject like – “cause we like jerkin off”, “because they can’t get the real thing!”, “It’s a turn on”, “they are lonely”, and “Some men do but not all”.  Some even think phone sex is a sexual addiction. There were also some answers that were obviously given by guys who indulge in phone sex and were able to give some insightful answers.

Response #1

“Most of it is all psychological  it has to do with the idea that a girl is being dirty, taboo, its different (and less work…) most of all, it has a bit more imagination involved. not everything is so realistic so while a guy is fantasizing, he can be thinking of any number of hot scenarios. Its stimulation… the basic concept of pornography…. (fyi, there are many gals who enjoy it too)”

Response #2

“Biologically men are wired to be very easily stimulated by sights and sounds, sights more so but sounds can be just as arousing.
When a guy is on a phone with a girl he can fantasize about her (or who ever) he can act out his fantasies to an extent by tell the girl to say what he wants. And, yes its true, guys tend to masturbate at the same time.
What it boils down to is that phone sex is a cheap and easy way for some guys to get hot and get off.
And just for clarification: The only time I’ve ever had phone sex was with a girlfriend, and she enjoyed it too! Not all guys care for phone sex though.”

 

As a phone sex operator, I have some opinions of my own as to why men love phone sex and it boils down to the fact that ‘fantasy can sometimes be better than reality”.  It can be difficult to reveal your fantasies with your partner if you don’t think they will be open to it and willing to explore them with you especially if they are taboo. Calling a stranger that will not judge you and indulge these fantasies can be a very enjoyable experience.

If you love phone sex and have something insightful to say on the subject, I’d love to hear your comments.

xo

Layla

WHAT ROLE CAN I PLAY FOR YOU?

One of the best things about phone sex is role playing

I love it when a guy tells me his fantasy and we play it out. I’ve played everything from a naughty school girl to a Mistress. There are alot of girls out there with just one specialty but it’s so much more fun to do it all.

I’m always being asked questions like ‘what’s your favorite role to play?’, ‘what’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done on a call?’, or ‘what really turns you on?’. I find these questions impossible to answer because I can never narrow it down to just one thing. Besides, I think they ask those questions because they are trying to figure out if I’ll be open to whatever it is they want to get into anyway. Alot of phone sex girls say ‘anything goes’ and don’t really mean it, I assure you that I mean it!

The whole purpose of phone sex is about Fantasy. Going places in your sexuality that you either want to go for real at some point, may never do but the fantasy turns you on and you need to play it out, or you just want to explore something new. Because the possibilities of sex are limitless, phone sex should be the same way.

It doesn’t matter if you’re in the mood to just be yourself or someone else, I’m open to it.So I ask you…..What role can I play for you? What role would you like to play for me?

Your Fantasy or Your Truth

 

I can’t tell you how many times I had someone on the line wanting to play out a fantasy that I could tell was not just a fantasy at all. They have their reasons I’m sure for not telling me it’s something they either really want to do or have already tried. It could be that seeing it as a fantasy makes it more exciting or they may be embarrassed to admit the truth. It’s totally understandable that a person that’s into something taboo would say it’s a fantasy and in most cases a fantasy is just a fantasy. But what happens when you fantasize about something so much that it seeps into your reality? Is it possible to be so turned by something and never want to try it for real?   Hmmmmmm;)

I read an article that said the top 10 male fantasies were:

  • Threesomes

  • Sex with a Prostitute

  • Role playing

  • Women who are off-limits

  • Exotic locations

  • Caught in the act

  • Sex with a stranger

  • Voyeuristic pleasure

  • Being with dominatrix

  • Sex with a Virgin

This is of course a very ‘vanilla’ way of describing them but you get the idea. I’ve found role playing to be the most common among my callers and within that all the other fantasies listed above are played out.  Of course there is no way I can know for sure if I’m playing out or listening to someones fantasy or a confession of their truth.

I do believe that a person can have a fantasy they would never carry out in real life. I have a few of my own, but to make my point, I want to give you something to think about. You know that very naughty fantasy you have that no one knows about? 🙂 If you could actually do it and no one would ever find out, would you go through with it? If you didn’t already say no, then you would, which means your fantasy may very well be your truth. I say…….as long as it legal, go for it!

My Shoe Slave

 

*Disclaimer: Any blog entries that reveal a name of a caller is by request. I respect the privacy of my callers and will only name those that wish to be exposed. Any similarities of subject matter is by coincidence and not intended to portray any person or incident and are based on fantasies unless otherwise stated.

Addicted to Shoes

I sometimes get callers that have a foot or shoe fetish or both but several months ago I got a call from a guy named Jason from New York. Jason’s obsession with shoes is much deeper than your typical fetish. He’s addicted to paying me to program his mind to live his life as a shoe slave. He sits in front of his computer for hours and sometimes days, watching videos and images of shoes while stroking himself. I enjoy making him do this for me and I constantly bring him to the edge and NEVER allow him to cum:) He loves it when I tell him how I talk about him to my girlfriends and how they laugh at him. As a matter of fact when he reads this, he’s going to get alot of pleasure out of it.

So you may be thinking, that’s not so unusual, the guy just gets turned on by shoes. It’s so much deeper than that. Mr. Jason W. says the shoes actually talk to him lol. He loves licking the bottoms and having a shoe strapped to his face by wrapping stockings around his head forcing him to smell the inside. I should mention that he has quite a thing for stocking too.

He has given me lots of information to expose him, like his phone number, address, plate number, and where he works. He even asked to marry me and make him sign power of attorney papers so I can control all his money! …what a loser:)) It excites him that he has given me all this power to use against him and I do believe in giving my callers what they want. I’ve published posts all over the internet about him but he doesn’t know where to find it and that’s one of the ways I keep him in control.

If there are any girls in New York state that would like to get anything they want by just wearing a pair of sexy high heels, let me know and I’ll point you straight to him. He will empty his bank account just to have you literally walk all over him.

I’ll be writing and revealing more about Jason as he sinks deeper into his addiction so stay tuned;)

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