I can’t tell you how many times I had someone on the line wanting to play out a fantasy that I could tell was not just a fantasy at all. They have their reasons I’m sure for not telling me it’s something they either really want to do or have already tried. It could be that seeing it as a fantasy makes it more exciting or they may be embarrassed to admit the truth. It’s totally understandable that a person that’s into something taboo would say it’s a fantasy and in most cases a fantasy is just a fantasy. But what happens when you fantasize about something so much that it seeps into your reality? Is it possible to be so turned by something and never want to try it for real?   Hmmmmmm;)

I read an article that said the top 10 male fantasies were:

  • Threesomes

  • Sex with a Prostitute

  • Role playing

  • Women who are off-limits

  • Exotic locations

  • Caught in the act

  • Sex with a stranger

  • Voyeuristic pleasure

  • Being with dominatrix

  • Sex with a Virgin

This is of course a very ‘vanilla’ way of describing them but you get the idea. I’ve found role playing to be the most common among my callers and within that all the other fantasies listed above are played out.  Of course there is no way I can know for sure if I’m playing out or listening to someones fantasy or a confession of their truth.

I do believe that a person can have a fantasy they would never carry out in real life. I have a few of my own, but to make my point, I want to give you something to think about. You know that very naughty fantasy you have that no one knows about? 🙂 If you could actually do it and no one would ever find out, would you go through with it? If you didn’t already say no, then you would, which means your fantasy may very well be your truth. I say…….as long as it legal, go for it!